Home BusinessSocietySingle and ready to…

Single and ready to…

by Jasmina Najjar

“The telephone rang. It was my 70 year old great-aunt. My heart crumbled. I knew full well what was coming next. ‘Hello there sweetie,’ she chirped. ‘So, have you met anyone special?’ Her tone became grave and stern. ‘Not yet,’ I replied in a rather ‘goodness not again’ manner. ‘Tsk,’ she snapped. ‘You’re 34 years old and still not married. You’ve reached your expiration date. No one will want you now. You’ve missed the boat.” Beirut Knights This sort of conversation is familiar to Lebanon’s growing legion of singles. We live in the land of “nefrah minik” (may we celebrate your wedding) with sayings that include “a bridegroom made of coal is a blessing” (implying that any man is better than being single) and “the bride is a frog but the wedding is a cyclone” (the bride is insignificant but the wedding is a grand show). But marriage might not

You may also like

5 comments

Jehan August 26, 2014 - 3:46 PM

This was a great article. I believe this single shaming breaks through boundaries and exists in every culture throughout the world.
Being single is a blessing! One must celebrate their existence! Peace love and light
Great article shine on my friend

Jasmina Najjar August 26, 2014 - 10:14 PM

Glad you liked the article Jehan. Thanks for your words of encouragement. I hope more people respond positively to this article and that many read it. That’s how change starts…

Aline Sfeir September 10, 2014 - 9:21 AM

Thank you Jasmina!!!

Jasmina Najjar September 11, 2014 - 6:50 PM

:)

Cecci Atkins July 16, 2015 - 2:55 PM

Excellent article! It’s so true. happiness is found in ourselves. I have recently left an abusive an unhappy marriage, and it is so wonderful to be single and free, and I want to stay that way! Thanks!

Comments are closed.

✅ Registration successful!
Please check your email to verify your account.