Traveling is on everyone’s mind. Try listening to some of the very popular horoscope shows and you will inadvertently hear: “Fi safar?” Any travel plans? As opportunities for educated, professional people diminish in Lebanon, all eyes start to turn abroad. Most of the people looking to travel tend to be young men in search of better opportunities in other countries. But what if you are a young family? How much would it cost you to relocate?
Many couples with young kids now think of moving as a means of offering their children a future filled with security and opportunity rather than political and financial uncertainty.But if, like me, you are a snob, and would only agree to move to Europe (I am not one for grass grown with desalinated water, fake snow or culture that is imported rather than produced) then the question that begets itself is: can we afford it?
Answer: Probably not.
Before we go any further, I must admit that, yes, the vast majority of Lebanese families live on a lot less than the numbers I am going to throw out, but for the purposes of our survey, I have been forced to take the young, upwardly mobile couple as the model.
Such a family in Beirut needs a minimum of $2,500 per month in living expenses. This sum includes rent (three-bedroom apartment in a good area), private school fees, one full-time, sleep-in domestic helper, bills and transportation fees, but it does not include groceries, clothes, cars, travel, etc. The modest amount affords a decent living by all standards, especially with income tax at around 10%. How much would this same family need to satisfy these same conditions abroad?
Take three examples: Athens, Milan or London, all great cities in which to live. Culture, history, beauty, green spaces, organization and respect for the rule of law abound in these places, but as you can see from the table below, you would need to spend about $6,500 a month to live decently in Athens (albeit not in absolute luxury) and almost double that to reside London. Add to that what you have to pay in income tax (40% average) and you realize you need to be grossing quite an annual yearly income just to ‘live’. Dubai has traditionally been a popular destination for the spirited expat, but even that emirate is now proving beyond the reach of many.
Plus, there are other, immaterial, issues to consider when living abroad, such as proximity to family, distances, traffic, work permits in some cases and even the weather!Sure, in these big cities, you’re at the center of the world rather than in the margins, plus you have peace of mind when it comes to political, financial and economic security. But an increasing number of people are carefully reviewing these considerations and wondering: is it worth it?
The result is a relatively new phenomenon in Lebanon: the split family, when parents choose to live and educate the kids in Lebanon while the breadwinner makes a “Western”salary abroad, mostly either in Europe or the Gulf.Financially, its cheap, and socially, many believe a tighter clan fabric means less crime and apparently no drugs.
Ever wonder where all the money is coming from when staring at the array of Porsche Cayennes and Lexus 4x4s in parking lots? At the last estimate, 25% of GDP is in the form of foreign remittances. So although it can be hard on many couples to be separated and married women sometimes feel like they are single mothers, this arrangement is actually a happy medium between risking it all here and giving it all up there. It also makes more financial sense.
Most conversations about relocating end in the same conclusion: define your priorities. But once your priorities are defined, if you decide to relocate, check your wallet!
RANA HANNA has checked her wallet and decided to stay in Lebanon.